Is it possible to preserve love and tenderness for ages to come? It seems so difficult these days what with all the issues of social exchanges and stress from financial complications. Despite these problems, there is still the possibility for your bond to continue strong with your lover. Here are 5 secrets that will ensure it lasts for eternity.
Accepting that the two of you are not different from one another
Hands down the most far-fetched belief when it comes to love is that one’s ideal soulmate should be a copyright of them. Everything from their manners, to their preferences and their dislikes, should be in tandem with yours. However, this is an entirely false myth that has been debunked over and over again.

As a matter of fact, one pillar that signifies success in any relationship is knowing how to accommodate your partner’s differences, as well as their preferences. That is what makes the relationship interesting.
As a committed shareholder in the marriage, you will have to understand that your significant other views the world differently from you, and be willing to live happily despite this.
Accepting that your partner has limitations
Expecting your soulmate to be perfect in every action or decision they make is a folly in itself. As a matter of fact, it is quite the recipe for disaster.
As a partner, you’ll need to acknowledge that your lover will have mistakes at some point of the relationship. Exercising forgiveness is one sure way of making the relationship last as it ensures that any hurdles and obstacles can be overcome.

Get to the root cause of any concerns the two of you are experiencing
Arguments are part and parcel of any relationship. That being said, they should be handled with a lot of self-control. There is no point in humiliating and ridiculing one another as this only serves to drive the two of you further apart.
During an argument, ensure to always be honest and transparent regarding the situation to ensure that there is no breach of trust. Additionally, this will also serve to foster the bond in the relationship.
Accept the transformations of intimacy over the years
There are different facets of intimacy as a couple grows together. During earlier years of dating, intimacy is normally passionate. As the couple transitions into the bonds of marriage, they concentrate on reproductive intimacy. Then comes ‘convenient’ intimacy as the couple becomes parents. Eventually, the couple will settle on reserved intimacy once they hit their midlife years.
That being said, it is vital that the both of you are able to accept these transitions and not attempt to rekindle past ‘forms’ of love outside the pillars of marriage.
Enjoy the fullest of your life with your partner
The whole point of this union is to enjoy life with your partner while you still can. This means that you’ve got to appreciate every moment that your partner spends besides you. With how limited time is, especially if you are currently in your midlife years, there’s virtually no point clinging on to problems of past years. After handling most issues, it’s time to sit back, relax, and savor each other’s sweet embraces.